To give you the best chance of meeting someone, all members can message you – until you say otherwise. (After all, you’re in charge).

If you want to, you can adjust your settings to make sure you only hear from people you’re into.

To only receive messages from people you have liked, winked or messaged:

On the website or app, go to ‘Preferences’ and enable this as an option. Or, on the app, select the lock icon that shows at the top of your messages.

To only receive messages from people in your preferred age range:

- Go to filters

- Set your preferred age range

- Enable ‘Hide me from members outside this age range’